About

What you see is what you get, and there will probably be more “About” as there is more “About” available … I add to this a little at a time.

Anyway, there are plenty of blogs about the getting and having of sex, the watching of sex, the sheer, wanton sexiness of sex. But perhaps there are not enough literate and thoughtful blogs about sexual culture, or at least there are not enough of them by heterosexual men.

Or so I imagine, here at the beginning. I’m sure to become more enlightened.

You can write to the author/editor, me, using the contact form. I look forward to hearing from anyone interested in what goes on here.

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02/2009: I was recently bullied into writing my “25 Things.” The writing of “25 Things” has spread across social networking sites and is … pandemic. But they make good “About Me” material. They’re personal and reek of narcissism.

I’ll add them here … maybe one a week.

1. I believe there is such a thing as a self-fulfilling prophecy. As proof, I offer the name of my dog when I was a kid: Trouble.

2. Though my favorite book of all time is The Last Unicorn, by Peter S. Beagle, it did not inspire me to write fantasy. It inspired me to endeavor to write well, though.

3. When asked in a job interview in 1996 “What are you best at?”  I replied, without thinking, “Getting people to like me.” I got the job.

4. Since 1993, every single woman I have dated, slept with, had a relationship with, lived with, loved … I met online first. It is so normal to me that meeting in any other way has become the stuff of fantasy.

2 Responses to “About”

  1. Kay Hardin says:
    October 13, 2011 at 12:41 pm

    I am intrigued and I like smart guys – there is so much information here and I am behind on school work – but it is on my list of things to delve into when I have time, or will make time because my curiosity will get the better of me. (how great this web site has a spell check- gee z)

  2. Reginald Woolman says:
    March 18, 2012 at 1:47 am

    This sounds distasteful to me. And isn’t this sort of how the Church got in trouble with the pedophilia scandle? When you get desperate for priests you accept those that are joining for the wrong reasons.

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Shadowy "Into Temptation" has been a forum about evolving social-sexual networks and how they have changed and are changing lives. In other words, we talk about dating and sex.

The original intention was that this blog would also chronicle a book project on the same subject; but that is in flux, on hiatus, perhaps meant for another time.